Well, obviously

It is cold as a winter's day outside, which is weird, because it's actually winter right now.  Do you ever get tired of people stating the obvious?  It makes me want to regurgitate some piece of obvious information right back at them. 

Like today, when it was about 20 degrees outside and this chick tells me, "It's cold outside!"  I really wanted to look at her and say, really?  I didn't notice that as I was wrapping myself in 12 layers of shirts, jackets, sweaters, gloves, and scarves.  What I did notice is that you have a gigantic pimple on your cheek that needs to be dealt with...I'm sure you had no idea when you looked in the mirror this morning. Yes, I'm a smart ass.  I don't always say what I'm thinking, I'm sure you'll be pleased to know.

This whole noting the obvious thing is something that happens a lot in my house.  My dad has a terrible memory, which means that we all get to be blessed with him repeating himself over and over again.  He'll forget things like coffee in the microwave, left there to get stale and greet me when I go to heat up my lunch leftovers.  Sometimes he goes running three times in a day because he forgot he already went.  He is forever putting my dishes into random places in my kitchen, probably because he enjoys watching me have to scavenger hunt for them.  All of these things aside, there is one thing that he does that I have zero patience for, which is his tendency to bark out random OBVIOUS facts during either television or a movie.  It drives me fucking crazy.  I mean, I truly want to punch him in the face sometimes.  I love my dad, but you have no idea how irritating it can be when you're in the middle of watching a car in some fast paced action movie jump over a side rail and still be able to drive away from the cops who were chasing it, and then your dad says in an overtly obnoxious voice, "There is no way that would really happen."  Then he goes off about how the tires would have blown out, the axles would have been destroyed, and the shocks would be useless.  HE DOES THIS CRAP DURING CARTOON MOVIES!!!!

He's like my 3rd child, which sometimes is great, because I can get him to do chores, plus he's an amazing distraction for my kiddos, who are absolutely in love with their grandpa.  But some days...truly I just need to get out of the house, or quiet my mental breakdown with a nice big jack and coke.  Which sometimes works, but this sometimes backfires, because I don't like making Dad mad, but it's so easy when you've got a bit of liquid courage in you.  You see how aggressive I am in my daily speech; imagine what I could do when I've had the edge completely eliminated.

 Oh well...we piss each other off, but better pissed off than pissed on!  Have a great day!

Two roads diverged

Well, it's back to school time, and I don't mean for the kids.  They've been back for over a week now.  Nope, it's time for Mom and Dad to go back to school.  I can't say that I'm incredibly disappointed...I mean, all this rest has been great, but I really do better when I am under a crap-ton of pressure.  I fully enjoy being stressed out most of the time, and my life typically functions better when I am.  Now my pressure is getting to be a little bit different though.  I'm still in school, to be sure, but I am not sure what I am going to do with myself after this year is over.  I will graduate this December and either have to go for a Master's, law school, med school (yeah right), or put my big girl panties on and get a real job.  I just don't know which one of these things I really want to do.  I'm looking at a couple of different programs, but I'm still not 100% certain which road I want to travel down. 

The kids are no help.  They don't seem to care what Mommy does, as long as I cook them something palatable for dinner.  My husband is still in the middle of trying to figure out what he wants to do which basically renders him useless.  So I don't really know exactly what to do.  For now I suppose I'll stick with staying suma cum laude and working on dropping some of this winter warmth.  Am I supposed to technically call this stuff blubber? 

Baby balooga....oh baby balooga! 

Perhaps my distractability is one of the issues that I haven't dealt with.  I mean, I want to do everything.  I can't really narrow it down.  You should see my resume.  And although I usually excel at whatever I do, it doesn't exactly make me prime material for new companies. 

What I'm really considering is getting a Master's in teaching, which would enable me to mold young minds in my likeness, not just with my own kiddos, but also with YOURS!!  Looking forward to that, are you?  Perhaps I'll be seeing you sometime down the road at a parent teacher conference, where we can put the blame of your child's stupidity onto each other in order to make ourselves feel better about not having a fucking manual to drive one of these things.  Oh, and when we do meet, don't send your kid to school with an apple.  A martini mixer would be just fine, thanks.

When did I get old??

It's official.  I've officially crossed the line into aged territory.  I realized that last night, when I got to leave work early, planning to go out with a girlfriend, and yet never managed to make it back out of the house after I got home.  And why did I stay home?  Well, the prospect of my pajamas and some late night nookie sounded too good to pass up.  But we were going to go out!! We were going to have some young, single (hey, I can play pretend) fun!  But I swear, those pajamas looked at me and called my name and I just couldn't pass it up.  My first Saturday night off since I started this job, and I spend it at home eating and snuggling.  I woke up this morning realizing that this is the official descent into old lady land.  My kids are right.  Mom, you're old.  I'm so old that I couldn't even sleep in this morning.  Here I am, 8:00 am and I'm sitting here, still in my pj's, drinking a cup of delicious coffee writing to you rather than laying in bed after a late, swanky night out.  What the fuck is wrong with me??

These pajamas might be the issue.  They are the fuzzy, warm generic pajamas that they now sell in every single store.  Perhaps if I didn't have such comfy pj's I wouldn't be so tempted to slip them on and relax.  But maybe relaxation isn't the problem.  Maybe I'm just being confronted with my own change, and I'm not sure if I like it...or maybe I do, and that's another problem entirely.  Maybe I'll go hit up some yard sales this morning, surely another sign of aging.  Isn't it beautiful people?

Just one bite!

Mmmmm...Joe's Crab Shack.  Delicious.  I believe they might have the best crab recipes in the world.  Lovin' it.  We went there for lunch today and I consumed a giant dungeoness crab, enjoying every taste.  So why did I order my kids food?  Those little turds...all they wanted was to eat mine and Daddy's food.  I don't know why we ever actually order stuff for them.  Of course, intially they want something off the kid's menu, but once the food arrives their food just sits there, while they sit and whine for another bite of mine.  Why is this?  This happens not only at restaurants, but at home as well.  I can't eat anything without having to share it with the little vultures.  I swear, I can open the fridge with the kids playing outside, which you would think would prevent them from being able to hear it, but nooooooooo....here they come! 

Mommy, I want a bite! 

But is a bite ever truly enough?  Let's be real people.  One bite leads to two bites leads to three bites leads to finishing the milk in the bottom of my cereal bowl.  You would think that I would lose some weight with all of the sharing that I do on a daily, nay hourly basis.  I never get to eat anything by myself.  And don't even get me started on my dad, who lives with us too.  He is the worst culprit.  I swear, he sees me with ANYTHING and the first thing out of his mouth is, "Bite?"  OMG! 

The day I get to finish my own sandwich will be, well, after both kids graduate and we put dear old dad in the ground.  And let's face it, that's not gonna be for a long, long time.  I guess I should start buying bigger bowls for my cereal and bigger bread for those sandwiches.  Or, maybe I should just appreciate them helping me to keep the calories down.  Save some room for that nice big vodka soda with lime.  :)

The housing dilemma

When I was young, I never learned about money.  So, naturally, I didn't know how to prevent myself from falling into terrible money habits and ruining my credit.  I am now 27 years old and still fixing all of the problems that I created for myself in the past.  I am happy to know what I know now, but I wish someone would have told me about it all when I was younger.  What makes this such a terrible problem now is that we can't purchase a house.  I want a house for my kiddos so badly.  They deserve to not have to move, over and over again.  So now we are in serious credit crunch mode, trying to create a great financial picture on paper in order to qualify for a home loan.  Ugh.

I've taken the first few steps.  I got a credit card, which will initiate some revolving credit for myself.  My husband will have a credit card within a week or two, which will give him some revolving credit.  We're in the middle of trying to clean everything up while still pay our bills at the same time.  This is going to take awhile, I can already see. 

Looking at houses makes me drool, because I just want one so badly.  Did I mention that my husband does remodeling?  So of course I would like to have a home that we can actually fix up for ourselves.  I know just how I want my kitchen, bathrooms, etc.  But is this dream to become reality?  Probably not for awhile.  We're working with a mortgage broker who has some credit clearing friends, so maybe sooner than I anticipate, but until then, we might just be stuck in a month to month with a crazy landlord who has to pray about everything before making any decisions.  Not that praying is a bad thing, but you would think that us being the answer to her first prayers would make it easy for her to allow us to sign a lease.  Apparently not.  The kids find it fun to house hunt, running circles around each and every living room that we look at.  They don't seem to understand why mommy and daddy are so serious.  :)  I'm gonna try to take a note from them.  Who cares where we live, as long as we live there together??

Ouch! My wallet hurts!

The world is shaking around me.  The noises of yesterday are ringing in my ears.  I can't believe that I'm about to say this, but I think that I'm done with shopping.  HA!  I went to the Victoria's Secret semi-annual sale yesterday and managed to spend a nice amount of money.  I also went and bought my kiddos a bunch of clothes (cause I can't seem to manage not to spend money on them).  This shopping spree left a nice dent in my wallet, which seems to be telling me, "HEY LADY!  STOP SPENDING YOUR MONEY!!!!" 

My mind argues back, "But I love to shop!"  And it's true, isn't it ladies?  There's not a whole lot like the rush that you get when you buy that purse you've been eyeing for a month now.  And don't you just feel content once you slip into that awesome pair of jeans?  At least for the moment?  I love to indulge myself every once in awhile, especially if it is on a sale rack.  I just can't seem to say no if the price is right.  This especially seems to be true if I see something that would look just right on my pretty little girl. 

She would love this!  Oh, wow, this skirt is so cute for her!  Hannah Montana?  I have to buy this!

Or even for my son....

What a cute shirt!  He'll look so handsome!  Aww, look at this ball, my boy would LOVE this!

I got some thank you's yesterday though; that was new.  Both kids seemed to be appreciative of their mommy's ever-growing coupon clipping sales skills.  They hugged their newest items with love and said thank you mommy over and over again.  So maybe I'm not being too bad.  I mean, I do need to hit up Old Navy today...hubby needs some new shirts.  Yes, he needs them.  Or maybe I just need another fix.  Better t-shirts than crack people!  Don't judge me!

Welcome back, reality.

Today is the day we've all been waiting for.  That's right, the kiddos are back in school!  This is an exceptionally exciting day for all of us parents who have been blessed with extra time over Christmas break with our kids, only to find out that we don't entertain them as well as we used to.  What happened?  And I feel like the kids know this too.  This might be because when I went to pick my son up from daycare yesterday he pointed his star tipped wand at me and said, "GET OUT OF MY CLASS!!!!" Oh, shit!  I guess he felt the same way as I did over break when he looked at me pitifully, as if I had no clue how to make his day go exactly the way that those amazing teachers do at school. 

We called yesterday the test run for back to school, because although we all got up and got both kids ready for school, only one school was in session and it was not my daughter's.  Ha!  Jokes on us.  It was a good day, really anyway. After finding the elementary school closed, my husband and daughter watched cartoons and I cleaned up the house.  And I forced my daughter to clean her hurricane disaster area as well.  Which was fun.  I always enjoy a good yell fest and debate over why the room should or shouldn't be cleaned.  Back to reality people.  Back to reality.  Grandma isn't here anymore kids...Mommy will still kick your ass.  Get that damn room cleaned up!  You are almost 5 years old...you know how to put your toys into your toybox!  I am still amazed every time she tells me she can't do something as simple as putting away her jewelry.  Kid, you read on a 4th grade level and you can't figure out how to open a jewelry box???  What in the hell is going on here?  It is frustrating in the way that when you're putting on eyeliner and it keeps smudging and you feel completely incompetent, even though you've been putting on eyeliner for over 10 years now. 


So here I am, back to doing what I do best, paperwork, school, blogging, and entertaining myself.  I think I'm gonna hit up Victoria's Secret today and try to figure out just how she manages to keep it.  Have a great one!